Dear Sophie and Mel,

I do not wish to intrude upon your privacy nor your grief, but I do want to extend to you my deepest sympathy in the passing of your daughter Carrie. I will not try to tell you that I can understand or feel what it is that you feel. Your loss as a parent is a solitary one; shared by you both, but individual to each.

I had only come to know Carrie for a few short months, and while the circumstances should have been anything other than what they were, I felt that I had the opportunity to meet someone who had an amazing impact on the lives she touched.  Carrie made such an indelible mark on the lives of others, and will be remembered by so very many; people you will know and some you will not.

The strength your family has shown throughout all of this is remarkable.  While Carrie's illness was hers alone, her journey was not without the unfailing support of her family and friends.  Through grace and humor Carrie showed such fortitude in facing one of life's biggest challenges, and she did it by getting up every day and meeting life on her terms; and she fought for her life, every single day.  She was a woman to be respected and admired.

It had come to my attention that Carrie was an artist, and I am sure that she appreciated all of the beauty that art brings to life, even at its most daunting times.  I hope that her love for art brought her joy for all times.  I do know that her daughters Isabella and Elizabeth brought her great joy.  While their time with her was short, they will grow to know and understand how special their lives were for having her as a mother, and a time will present itself when they will be able to say with great pride - I am Carrie Liebman's daughter.

While your daughter Allison has lost a sister, friend and confidant, she will find solace in knowing that those who truly love us; love us always, and because of that love she will be safely guided throught out her life by an unseen hand.  I wish your family continued strength to face the days ahead, and the most treasured of memories to help heal your hearts.

I felt very badly to not have said goodbye to Carrie that last day at the office, but with life there is hope and I did not feel as if it was my place to do so at that time. I would ask your forgiveness in this.

With heartfelt sympathy to you all,

Stephanie Clark(Oncology-reception)